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Bullying behavior and the impact of bullying behavior on children and adolescents has received considerable attention in empirical and clinical literature over the last two decades. Increasingly, empirical research is demonstrating that the psychological effects of being bullied persist into adulthood. There is less literature available that describes clinical processes with adults who were bullied as children. After reviewing the literature that discusses the long-term effects on adults of being victimized by bullies, and the literature that describes hegemonic views of masculinity, this paper gives a detailed clinical illustration in which the victimization of the client as a child becomes a core feature of the psychotherapy. Of importance, the client needed to reshape his view of masculinity as he worked through the trauma of having been bullied as a child. Recommendations for further work are given.
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Identifying information about the client has been altered to protect his anonymity.
See Basham and Miehls (2004) for a description of Phase-Oriented Trauma Therapy. The first phase of clinical work is ego-supportive with the client building the internal and external resources necessary to do more intensive uncovering and working through of traumatic experiences (2nd phase). The last phase of the treatment consolidates the psychotherapeutic work by establishing healthier relationships with an enhanced sense of self and increased self-esteem.
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Miehls, D. Hegemonic Views of Masculinity and Bullying: Clinical Work with Men Who were Bullied as Children. Clin Soc Work J 45, 56–64 (2017). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10615-016-0581-6
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