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Kapitel 4 diskutiert Liebe (und wie sie in romantischen Beziehungen aufrecht erhalten werden kann) und bringt das Konzept des Selbstmitgefühls auf den Tisch. Was ist „soziales Kapital“ und warum sind andere Menschen so wichtig für uns?

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    Etymologisches Lexikon: http://goo.gl/UiCZRm (Zugriff 11.07.2016).

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    Big Think (2010). Big Think Interview with Tal Ben-Shahar. http://goo.gl/NK6JMS (Zugriff 16.07.2016).

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Tomoff, M. (2024). Positive Psychologie und die Liebe. In: Positive Psychologie - Erfolgsgarant oder Schönmalerei?. Springer, Berlin, Heidelberg. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-662-68397-2_4

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