Abstract
People tend to prioritize their own interests and are generally more self-concerned than others. However, research has uncovered a phenomenon where individuals often treat themselves more harshly than they would treat others, especially when they fall short of specific goals or experience feelings of inadequacy and failure. In such instances, people tend to engage in self-criticism, displaying signs of hostility and self-contempt, which can contribute to negative outcomes. Fortunately, the concept of self-compassion has emerged as a protective shield in these situations and beyond. Self-compassion involves being supportive of oneself in the face of personal mistakes, shortcomings, and life’s challenges. Its positive effects extend well beyond mitigating self-criticism; it includes a wide range of personal and interpersonal benefits. Self-compassion has been found to have a robust positive relationship with many psychological factors including evaluation styles, academic performance, social relationships, and overall well-being. Given the plethora of positive outcomes associated with self-compassion, this chapter outlines its impact on students’ functioning. In this section, we acknowledge the significance of self-compassion in educational settings. The chapter begins by providing an overview of the theoretical foundation of self-compassion and then proceeds to present its positive effects on the general population. Subsequently, we explore the specific benefits of self-compassion for students, particularly in terms of academic performance and well-being. Furthermore, we review the practical intervention programs that educators can employ to cultivate self-compassion among their students. In conclusion, this chapter presents some recommendations for educators to nurture self-compassion as a valuable tool for the personal and academic growth of their students.
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Çağış, Z.G., Yıldırım, M. (2024). Self-Compassion in Students: Theoretical Background, Practices, and Positive Outcomes. In: Arslan, G., Yıldırım, M. (eds) Handbook of Positive School Psychology. Advances in Mental Health and Addiction. Springer, Cham. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-031-54295-4_4
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