Abstract
The Marlborough Pub is a vibrant social and creative centre of the LGBTQIA+ (and especially trans and nonbinary) community in Brighton, UK. A 2016 MindOut award recognised that something radical is happening here to support mental health among community members who often desire support but are disincentivised from accessing traditional talking therapies. We wanted to understand the lived experience of radical informal therapeutic and peer support practices in this queer community. To do so, we used Husserlian phenomenological analysis of interviews with ten members of the Marlborough community. We generated six themes delineating the kinds of support people experienced. Using extracts and interpretive writing we explore three of those themes here: (1) feeling recognised as you really are, (2) feeling safe to express the true self and (3) engaging in queer listening. The pub community offered a space/place for reciprocity, interconnectedness, embodiment and complex experiences of mental (ill/)health. Empathetic ‘queer’ listening transformed individually held distress into a shared basis for social bonds and community-based political resistance. For practitioners, our findings encourage viewing traumatic distress as a relational injury in which phenomenological work is part of a somatic healing process. We join a radical critique countering both anti-therapeutic neo-liberal psychiatric structures, and the heteronormative assumptions that impact LGBTQIA+ people. Through this, we provide inspiration for new ways to undertake psychotherapeutic and community psychological practice in queer communities, and in other settings where people routinely engage in informal peer support.
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In this chapter, we interchangeably use the terms queer (reclaimed and in popular use since the late 1980s) and LGBTQIA+ (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Queer/Questioning, Intersex and Asexual and others). These acronyms are currently in wide use and are understood to hold maximum inclusivity for what are increasingly referred to within the mental health field as GSRD (gender, sexuality and relationship diversity) communities. Terms were used synonymously by all participants, although P10, aged 53, said they found ‘queer’ difficult as they remember when its only use was as a homophobic slur.
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We kindly thank Abby Butcher, Tarik Elmoutawakil and David Sheppeard, for access to the Marlborough Pub community, and our participants for sharing their experiences.
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Wilcox, C., Graber, R. (2022). ‘We the Marlborough’: Elucidating Users’ Experience of Radical, Informal Therapeutic Practices Within a Queer Community Pub. In: Walker, C., Zlotowitz, S., Zoli, A. (eds) The Palgrave Handbook of Innovative Community and Clinical Psychologies. Palgrave Macmillan, Cham. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-030-71190-0_11
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